What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:09
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
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33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Should women be allowed in “combat roles” within the military?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do many women shave their vaginas?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
What is the worst thing your sibling has done?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Can you share a picture of your favorite outfit and explain why you love it?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
How old are you? Male or Female?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
What are 5 ways that can be done by the community to improve the public transport system?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
*** Random Questions ***
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
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These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
How did Kate Mulgrew feel about Jeri Ryan joining the cast of Star Trek: Voyager?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
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*** Questions About Me ***
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Please share Did you stop?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Nothing too Serious
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
52~ What are your hobbies?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
Would you read them together?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Any that are a turn off?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
39~ What are your love languages?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
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What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
If yes, what?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
The Ice Breaker Questions
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
What is your favorite position? Why?
29- How superstitious are you?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?